Artist: Baby D
Album: Floorfillers Anthems (3 CD)
Tracklist :
- (Everybody's Got To Learn Sometime) I Need Your Loving
Should I call CPS on my sister?
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Should I call CPS on my sister?
My sister and I have a relationship that can only be described as volatile. She's one of those who blames everyone else, especially our mother (but not her child molesting father!), for everything wrong with her and uses it as an excuse for why she makes such poor life choices. Its a frustrating situation that has spiraled down to the point where I want nothing to do with her. However, she's got two babies who I can't let go of. She's already lost custody of her first son, then went on to have two more babies with another man. She's been separated from this man for a while and has hooked up with some Mexican immigrant who she "implies" abuses her. A couple of months ago, she showed up on my doorstep with the kids begging for help. My mother and I drove in the middle of the night to the podunk town she was staying in to get her stufff because she insisted she needed it. The house was DEPLORABLE! Completely dirty with no heat. We moved her stuff back to my mom's, but by the end of the week, she'd picked a fight with my mom and went back to him. My mother called CPS then, but they sent a letter saying they'd found no evidence that the situation required their intervention. We haven't heard from her or the babies since. Well she texted me tonight, saying "she needed help but please don't call because he will hear". I texted back asking how I could help. She wanted me to contact the kids father and ask him to call her so that he could take the kids while she moved. She then said "he" (her boyfriend) was ready to "let her go" because she'd taken pictures of "what he's done" and he didn't want to "get looked up". I asked her first if I could come get the kids and then what exactly had he done. She never answered what he'd done, just that I couldn't come get them, that their father had to because he had a visitation order. I asked if he'd been seeing them regularly, and she answered that he hadn't even shown up to court. So I tried to reason with her that he'd never know the difference anyway (I just wanted to get the kids outta there asap!). Then she proceeded to text that she didn't want the kids taken away. I assured her that if she was really serious about getting herself and the kids out of the dangerous situation, she didn't have anything to worry about. She stopped texting me back. Now I don't know what to do or think...is she just playing the whole "pity me" card, or does she really have pictures of what he's done to her or worse, to the kids? I really hate that she did this, got me all stressed out and worried, and then just stopped communication. But I don't want to do anything that's going to possibly get her or the kids hurt.
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